Seeking Membership & event management CRM

I work for a small luxury wine making membership and after months of searching I feel like I’m hitting a dead end. I’m looking for a CRM with the following features

• robust member data storage that is highly customizable
• strong event management software
• Gmail integration
• a front end system or file repository for members to see
• payment integration w quick books

Ideally, it would be great but not necessary if the system also had a sleek social network for members and some kind of project management tools to use for the winemaking process.

I really liked VeryConnect, but my boss doesn’t feel like it’s luxury enough. Has anyone had experience working with that software?

TLDR; seeking recommendations for customizable CRM solution for membership with event management and gmail integration